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THE IMPACT OF OUR MOVEMENT DAYS




        DAVID MENDELSSON

        I                                                       knows, affect the future of our people. Perhaps the
            n July of 1979, having completed my
                                                                movement exaggerated our ability –  הנשנ התאו ינא
            undergraduate studies at Manchester
            University, I entered Habonim offices at 523
        Finchley Road to become Camps Organiser. For             םלועה  תא- but running programmes, leading at
                                                                camps, veidot and all the rest gave me this sense
        the next year, I worked shaping winter activities       that I had a role to play.
        and summer camps as well as being a madrich in
        North West London Ken. Looking back, I am               In those days, the British mantra of stiff upper lip,
        amazed that at the age of 22 the movement had           or perhaps what later was called suck it up,
        confidence in people like me to assume                  determined that the challenges of adolescence had
        responsibility not only for its finances but also for   to be met by suppressing feelings, whether
        the youngsters in our care.  How did we have the        anxiety, depression and/or loneliness. I often think
        nerve to undertake this responsibility and how did      that the movement provided a safe place for us.
        parents put their trust in us! And, to be sure, we      We found friendships – the best of friendships –
        jealously guarded this autonomy. I remember             with those with whom we shared our teenage
        shortly after I started working, a new shaliach         challenges, thoughts and even innermost feelings.
        joined the team. He assumed that he could take          Many of us went to single sex schools and the
        the reins of the movement and make it in his own        movement provided an environment that helped
        image. The three of us movement workers, and,           us explore a world of the unknown. These were
        indeed, our central shaliach, called him to order       after all turbulent times: the permissive society,
        and clarified “that’s not the way we do things          the technological revolution, the political
        here.”                                                  upheavals and the fast-changing sexual norms.

                                                                Habonim created a strong sense of “we.” As a
        Some years later, at the Hebrew University, I
        recall taking a course in informal education and        child of one parent who came to the UK on the
        discussing the criteria that define a youth             kindertransport and the other a survivor of an
        movement. Haim Shatzker argued that the                 internment camp, I was strongly aware of my
        autonomy of the youth and the remarkable                Jewish roots, mainly ethnic but also traditional
        responsibility given them often from the age of         religious. The movement placed a very strong
        sixteen was the hallmark of the youth movement          emphasis on the collective, not just because of its
        and differentiated it from those myriad other           commitment to kibbutz values, but also due to a
        youth organisations that functioned in parallel to      sense of our common Jewish history, culture and
        us.                                                     language. It also inculcated a very strong sense of
                                                                service, mentioned in a previous edition of the
        When I look back on those years in the                  Iton Kol Bogrei Habonim by Steve Israel. Being a
        movement, I realise that the autonomy given me          madrich during the year and at camps was always
        allowed considerable experimentation, innovation        voluntary and I remember when I attended the
        and scope to play with ideas that otherwise would       Machon LeMadrichei Chutz La’aretz in 1975-6,
        have been limited, controlled and often vetoed by       being shocked to learn that our American
        an adult generation. My successes – I hope there        counterparts were paid. Hadracha was a privilege
        were a few – gave me the confidence that I could        earned after much experience as a chanich and a
        make changes, impact my environment and, who            good degree of training.
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