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FROM MY PERSONAL HISTORY



        DOROTHY YOUNG (NEE DOT GAMP)



        A                                                       to Jerusalem, in about 2002, where my two sons
                  lot of time has passed since I was in the
                 Movement, but I still like to keep in
                                                                had rented a flat for a few weeks, and we stayed
                 touch with its Bogrim. Here is what has
                                                                This visit included, at last, a visit to the Kotel,
                 happened in my life, beginning from            there with our youngest daughter over Pesach.
        those early days when I joined.                         which just vibrated for me!  We visited Israel
                                                                again, when both the boys were married
        I did not have a direct relationship with any Ken,
        as I lived outside of the Jewish community.             there. After the weddings we visited the US and
        However, from 1960 until September 1961 I was           Israel, and we stayed with their families.
        on Hachsharat Noah (at the Eder Farm, Dial-Post,        The oldest, Shimon, chose to stay on there and to
        Horsham), which at that time included a month on        continue his studies at Yeshiva. He had a group of
        Israel Camp. Because the Old City of Jerusalem          friends in Jerusalem that included his girl-friend
        was in Jordan, we could not get to the Western          called Shira, with whom he went out and later she
        Wall. But at least we could claim that as Jews we       became his wife. Then, Shim said to Shira "Let’s
        had come from Israel!                                   go to the restaurant now." The friends responded
                                                                with: “Why not come back with us for a nosh and
        At the end of this period, I also joined in the
        formation of Garin Zayin. Soon after that, I met        a chat?" “OK” they agreed, however they stayed
        Sam, my husband in Southend, where my parents           too long and ate too much. Shimon then said:
        had recently moved to be in a Jewish community.         "Tell you what, let’s go to the café, opposite the
        We were married in 1966 and we wanted to go on          restaurant." Fortunately, they did so, because very
        Aliyah. Therefore, we asked the Jewish Agency           soon after that, with horror they watched the
        "What should we do to prepare to go on Aliyah in        restaurant blow up in front of them, due to a
        3 years' time?" They replied that all we should do      terrorist bomb. But they have now retaliated, by
        is to “Come back in 3 years".                           having four beautiful kids (keineinhora).
                                                                Jack, our next younger son, came home to the UK
        In those 3 years after getting married, we began
        our family, which has 4 children, two boys and          and meanwhile he was living and working in
        two girls. My parents grew older and moved near         London. One day he parked his car outside the
        us, so we could all keep in touch. At that time, we     house where he lived and shared with some
        could not afford to travel to Israel due to house       religious friends. Some thugs came up to him,
        purchases and later due to the university fees for      threatened him with a gun and got him to take
        our children’s studies.                                 them to into his home. They tied him up and his
                                                                friends too. But all that these intending thieves
        Skip forwards about twenty years. The two older         could find were Torah related books and not the
        boys had completed their studies at university and      expensive teenage stuff they hoped for. They took
        decided to go on to study in a Yeshivah in Israel.      him at gun-point to the car, drove to a cash
        They became modern Orthodox and later we                machine and there they let him go. The police
        followed (in this way). We and our youngest             subsequently identified and found them through
        daughter, Esther, visited Israel for Pesach, even       the fingerprints (or DNA) that remained on the
        before the boys married. Sam and I managed to go



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