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HANDS UP WHO WENT TO HABO*




          ANGIE JACOBS, LONDON



          Hands up if you went to Habonim in the 70s. My        Sloop John B was my favourite, but I could
          hand is up. Hands up if your mum pronounced it        never get on with the one about the Court of
          HaBONim rather than HaboNIM. My hand is               King Caractacus. Then there were the games –
          still up. I loved it, I would do anything to go       Machanayim was fun although there was always
          back in time and re-live those days of heady,         one kid who was a bit rough.
          good old fashioned fun youth.                         We learnt about sharing – each putting money
          I started going by accident. Every Sunday             into the “kuppah” or kitty for food. The premise
          afternoon my parents would host what we used          was that you put in what you could afford, but
          to call The Glee Club. The attendees were my          everyone got the same amount out – Socialism at
          grandparents plus half the residents of the Leeds     its cutest. Again, I probably wasn’t the most
          Jewish Old Aged Home. All good menschdik              generous or honest of folk. Wow, Sunday
          folk, like my mum and dad, but at 10 years old I      afternoons sure was a sugar high. But G-d sees
          couldn’t get out quick enough. I would kiss them      everything and I’ve suffered with a slow
          hello, politely accept any donations, wipe the        metabolism all of my adult life.
          lipstick off my face and skip on out to the           Sadly, I only went to Habonim for two years. My
          Moadon. I’d arrive back just after 5 o’clock as       friends all started going to BBYO and I,
          my dad would be piling them into his Volvo. I’d       pathetically, followed them. I hated fashion, I
          finish off all the Scotch Pancakes and                hated make up, but still I went. Like Pam Ayres
          Florentines while slowly helping my mum to            wished she’d looked after her teeth (seventies
          clear up.                                             poetry People, stay with it), I wish I’d kept going
          Youth groups were big in the Provinces in the         to Habonim.
          70s. Each had its own identity and agenda.            But let’s not get too maudlin. Let’s get back to
          Habonim was about jeans and Zionism.                  the best part about Habo – the camps. As soon as
          Ostensibly it didn’t matter what you wore –           I started attending Sunday afternoon meetings,
          clothes weren’t important. Fashion was for            the madrichim started asking me if I was going
          BBYO. But turn up in C & A jeans for Habo and         to WA. Who knew? I may have been. I
          there’d inevitably be someone sniggering behind       eventually found out that WA stood for winter
          your back. (Usually me, I’m ashamed to say.)          activities – winter camp. These camps were held
          The hard core Habonimniks wore the uniform.           in boarding schools and held over the New Year.
          In fairness it was available for us all, but I only   They were fab. In fact they were better than fab,
          progressed to the sweatshirt, or slopshirt as it      they reached the highest accolade –
          was called then. I really fancied one of those        “aceoberream”. Having the most protective
          blue shirts with the lace-up necks, but I was only    parents of any of my friends and in fact the
          ten and it just would’ve been delusions of            whole world, I never thought that I’d be allowed
          grandeur.                                             to go. However, the Leeds madrichim visited my
          The meetings were great – well-planned                parents and assured them that it would be 100%
          activities and lots of fun. We’d learn songs from     kosher – food AND activities. I could go. As
          ridiculously long rolls of paper that the tallest     long as I called home every day and reversed the
          Madrich would Blu-Tac onto the wall.                  charges, I could go.



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