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MEMORIES OF A MULTI-TASKER

          FEEDBACK ON GARIN CHET REUNION. POSTED ON
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          FACEBOOK APRIL 28 , 2018


          IVRI TASKER

          I                                                     skills that paved the way for adult careers. We
               am sitting on my veranda in Givat Chaim
                                                                learnt to multi-task before that phrase was even
              Meuhad, post-reunion enjoying my usual
              pastime of watching the grass grow. I feel
          that I have just returned from summer camp,           invented. Particularly here in Israel, we socially
                                                                and business-wise networked years in advance
          humming all those memorable songs, and                of Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn. Back then in
          reliving the fantastic experience of our three        the UK, we did it all with bravado, energy and
          days together.                                        lack of fear, believing that nothing could stop us.
          Fifty years, and even more! Wow! Who would            As a youth movement of less than one thousand
          have thought then that we would all meet up           members, we were a minority among other
          again like that?                                      young Jews, and all those who didn’t join us
                                                                missed out on so much.
          What did the movement give us? As adolescents,
          we had opportunities to learn, to socialize and to    Pam once told me that your oldest friends are
          dream. However, it was far more than that as I        your best friends. Very true! However, the
          reminisced with Stan, Elaine, Gary, Shloimy and       camaraderie of that time, taught us how to make
          others. We were teenagers who took on                 new friends. The movement was a life style. It
          responsibilities far beyond our years of looking      was an extended family. It was a band of
          after younger kids - being in charge of their         brothers and sisters. The movement was our
          health and safety, while taking them on rambles       madrichim and shlichim. Above all, it was US. It
          in inclement weather, teaching them Israeli           created a common bond and set of values so
          songs and dances; and consoling the younger           when we met together for three days now, I
          ones at summer camp, who were away from               could share memories and thoughts with even
          home for the first time.                              those chaverim and chaverot, with whom I
                                                                hadn’t even had minimal or any contact, 50
          With hindsight now as parents and grandparents,
          would we let a seventeen year old be in loco          years ago.
          parentis and take care of our nine-year-old           Those halcyon days became ingrained in our
          grandchild? The older we get the more cautious        memories and added a brick to the foundations
          and worried we have learned to be.                    of what we became. We pass on stories from that
                                                                time to our kids. I had heard them from my late
          As teenagers, we learnt so many life-benefiting
          skills. We received hands-on experience without       brother Malcolm who was in the Garin with
          text book learning. We were madrichim who             Frank and Dot Beth, Geoff Goodman, Len
          became teachers, educators and university             Goodman and David Shwartz in the early fifties
          lecturers.                                            in Amiad. I grew up on those stories the way my
                                                                son Yoni has grown up on mine and through
          As camp organizers, we became adult event             them he joined Machanot Olim and Garin
          organizers. As planners, we handled large sums        Nachal, and later became a tour guide.
          of money that led us on to be adult financial
          consultants. We learnt marketing and advertising      Thank you, Garin Chet for a wonderful reunion.
                                                                Thank you all - the committee, Elaine, Gary,


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